Tuesday, August 05, 2008

BOYFRIEND

ok.. this post is all about the great guys out there who really know how to make a girl fall in love with him over and over again, yeaa.. ^.^

i've figured out the perfect way to ask a girl out.. hehh.. well, it'll be perfect for me, at least.. haha.. =D

hrmm...

ok.. you two darlings go to the beach, just before sunset, maybe with a bunch of friends so as to make it less suspicious(wootz). invite her to watch the sunset with you.. then as the sun sets, tell her one kuku story about how, if she were your girlfriend, you'd bring her on special occasions to that very spot, watch the sunset with her, while cuddling her, and whispering sweet nothings into her ear. then, as an example, you cuddle her, and instead of sweet nothings, whisper your confession, and ask her out..

WHEE!! i tell you, i would fall in love with the guy, if i were the girl.. unless i really have no feelings whatsoever towards the guy, lorh.. then i'll just.. ermm.. say sorry? and run off.. haha.. =P but it's like so romantic larh can? haha.. i know you can find many many flaws in this method.. but heyy! i love it! whee! =D ouhh yeaa.. i'm a simple girl who doesn't ask for much.. haha.. and i'm NOT desperate, kayy.. ^.^ haha.. =D


hrmm... i've found many different articles about the 'dream guy'.

When she walks away from you madly[ follow her ]
When she stares at your mouth[ smile...then kiss her ]
When she pushes you or hits you[ hug her tight ]
When she starts cursing at you[ say i love you ]
When she's quiet[ hold her hand and ask what's wrong ]
When she ignores you[ act cute so she'll notice you ]
When she pulls away[ Pull her back ]
When you see her at her worst[ tell her you love her and she still looks amazing ]
When you see her start crying[ hold her...ask her what's wrong ]
When you see her walking[ approach her..give a kiss on the cheek ]
When she's scared[ assure her you're not going to leave her ]
When she lays her head on your shoulder[ tilt your head too..and hold her hand ]
When she steals your favorite hat[ let her keep it ]
When she teases you[ tease her back and make her laugh ]
When she doesnt answer for a long time[ reassure her that everything is okay ]
When she looks at you with doubt[ Back yourself up ] (-.-')
When she says that she likes you[ she really does more than you could understand ]
When she grabs at your hands[ Hold hers and play with her fingers ]
When she bumps into you[ bump into her back and make her laugh ]
When she tells you a secret[ keep it safe and untold ]
When she looks at you in your eyes[ dont look away until she does ]
When she misses you[ she's hurting inside ]
When you break her heart[ the pain never really goes away ]
When she says its over[ she still wants you to be hers ]
Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything...
When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go...
When she says she's ok dont believe it, talk with her......
because 10 yrs later she'll remember you.
Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
Call her before you sleep and after you wake up
Treat her like she's all that matters to you
Tease her and let her tease you back
Stay up all night with her when she's sick
Watch her favorite movie with her orher favorite show even if you think its stupid
Give her the world
Let her wear your clothes
When she's bored and sad, hang out with her
Let her know she's important
Kiss her in the pouring rain
When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;"Who's ass am I kicking babe?"

some email i got.. =/

We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.
Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till he morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.

Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood im in.
LET US PAY FOR YOU! DON'T 'FEEL BAD' We enjoy doing it. It's expected.
Smile and say 'thank you.'

Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.
Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's.
Or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.

Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing.
See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful'.
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy' or whatever else you can think of.
On the other hand im not sayin i wouldn't like it either.

Girls: I cannot stress this enough:
IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE.
DITCH HIS SORRY DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you'
..........AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!
*****Give the nice guys a chance*****

>Holdin Hands<
Girls : If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times.
Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.

>Cuddling<
Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold.
Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

>Movies<
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder.
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

>Loving each other<
Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it.

>Laying below the stars<
Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers. Now make a wish about something you would like to happen Between you and your crush....

guys: no grabbing!!! -_-


WHOO!! this is one bloody long post, ohh yeaa.. =D

i'm not saying i want my boyfriend to be like this.. this's just for fun.. ohh yeaa.. haha.. ^.^ having a 'dream guy' as your boyfriend can be rather boring, i must say.. haha =P coz you know what to expect.. and if he's all over you, it's a little suffocating, don't you think? we girls want to be independent too, once in a while.. and sometimes, we take pride in taking care of you, and being the 'guy' in a relationship and doing the 'guy' stuffs. lol..

guys, just be yourself, yeaa.. don't follow all these things.. it'll be so obvious you're faking it and trying so hard to get her attention.. trust me.. a girl can differentiate.. ^.^ we love you because you're you.. not because you follow these dummy guides to being a boyfriend.. -.- playing hard to get is rather sexy too, i must say.. haha.. =D let her do the wooing once in a while.. ohh yeaa... ^.^''

the 'perfect boyfriend' does not exist in this world.. you will always have flaws. that's because you're human ^.^ but that'll what make us love you more.. because we know we're not the only ones who make mistakes..

and guys, please tell us your problems.. we want to know about your life too.. love and trust is a two-way street..

ouhh.. yeaa.. this post is soooo long, Najian'll nag at me again -.-.. haha.. well, like i said; i didn't force you to read.. haha =D

but it's interesting now, isn't it? you've got to admit.. it HAS to be interesting for you to have come this far.. haha =D


love,
EFJ

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